Why Is It So Hard to Simply Connect?

by | Feb 7, 2013 | Miller Musings | 7 comments

bigstock-Internet-and-social-media-conc-28992089We have smartphones that surf

And apps to remind

We have forms to fill out

And chat lines to help

We tweet, we post, we pin our best

And for all of that, we cannot connect

Our calls get tangled in phone tree sap

Our emails are bounced in Do Not Reply

We wallow in a Do It Yourself web

With Gurus who tell us all we do wrong

For all of our toys and social media noise

Why is it so hard to simply connect?

Just sayin’

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7 Comments

  1. Darnell Jackson

    Good topic Cathy,

    I’ve found the stuff that I almost wince about posting or sending because its “too controversial” or “HARSH” connects the best these days with people.

    No risk = No reward

    “They” say politics and religion are too risky and “we” shouldn’t talk about it.

    I say where there’s risk there’s ACTION, deal the cards, πŸ™‚

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    • Cathy

      Hi Darnell: I admit, I’m not much for jumping in the middle of controversy. It has more to do with my personal energy Geiger-counter – a.k.a. is it worth the energy? than it does the controversy.

      However, I appreciate that we have the freedom to do so. My only benchmark is to be nice about it, and to not personally attack those with different opinions. But, then I am a Pollyanna. πŸ™‚

      Thanks for taking the risk, Darnell. πŸ˜‰

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  2. Lori

    Maybe because there’s a lot of noise from these self-appointed gurus telling us “NO! Do it THIS way!” Makes it tough to just reach out, especially when reaching out is the goal.

    I say be yourself and gurus be damned. They may have a large following, but I’ve always wondered about people who will follow blindly others’ advice. It’s the quality of the connections, not the quantity, that matters.

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    • Cathy

      Hear, hear, Lori. πŸ™‚ Quality connections. I like that. πŸ™‚

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      • Carol

        Good point, ladies. Too many connections vs quality connections. Have a nice weekend both.

        Reply
  3. Anne Wayman

    My solution is to start with ‘hello.’

    Reply
    • Cathy

      Good place to start, Anne. πŸ˜‰

      Reply

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