My Perfectly Imperfect Steps to Another 3-Day

by | Nov 3, 2025 | 3-Day 60-Mile Walk | 0 comments

Perfectly Imperfect book cover

How is it possible that we are in November? My 22nd 3-Day Walk for the Cure is a little more than a week and a half away. Yikes! As I typically say this time of year, where did the time go?

Perfectly Imperfect Race

This Old Lady never runs – although at times 2025 has felt like one big race. But still I walk. And walk some more. However, this year has been a real challenge to get in my steps to prepare this old body for another sixty-mile, three-day stroll.

Momcare has ongoing twists and turns. My amazing 102-year-old mother often asks why she’s so tired. Then she smiles and says, “Oh yeah. I’m 102.” Her sleep pattern has changed and so I made adjustments. My very early morning walks have pretty much gone by the wayside. At times, I had to miss days walking when it was too hot to do so.

My focus shifted to completing my book. And, success! Perfectly Imperfect: How Walking 60 Miles in 3 Days Shed Plenty of Biases published. I started in January of this year, targeting a publication date before I left for the Walk. And I did it. Barely.

The race to publication was far from perfect.

  • I had to snag times to write and walk away when I did not want to.
  • Formatting the book became a time-sucking misadventure.
  • Hiring someone to do it for me crashed and burned.

Then I tried a program designed for formatting – Atticus (I plan on doing a review at my business writing blog about the program). Like any new software, I had a learning curve, which made me a bit nervous about hitting my targeted publication date. But I did it!

And there was the trauma from Penny’s attack by another bigger dog that had Penny spending 15 hours at the animal ER. At times, it felt like the cards were stacked against me.

Perfect Therapy

Then a funny thing happened. The writing of my book was like therapy without the couch. Just like the 3-Day Walk for the Cure opened my eyes to soul-searching truths, the writing centered me. I could focus on something other than the chaos that is our world today.

I remember the why behind what I do and the goals I set before this year began. I rediscovered the hope that keeps us all putting one step in front of the other. Peace and happiness to you all. Walk on.

How many control freaks have you encountered in your life? Perhaps you identify yourself as one. I know. Never happens, right?

While few of us like others trying to control what we do, reality is there are some things out of our control. The trick is zoning in on what we can control. It’s much easier said than done.

The chaos of the current environment in the U.S. (and other parts of the world) can overwhelm to the point of paralysis. Mix in the stress of everyday life and you may feel your flame of self being snuffed out.

I know I have felt that. So, I decided to regroup.

When Control Slips Away

One of my greatest joys in becoming a sole proprietor of my own business was the control over my life.

  • No more commute in southern California traffic
  • Creating my own hours and schedule
  • Working on my priorities

Of course, with control comes other frustrations.

  • Taking on techie challenges
  • Handling everything from office maintenance to marketing
  • And did I mention techie challenges?

However, in recent years between caregiving for my mom who is over 100 years of age and the avalanche of political unrest, that control slipped into chaos.

Memoir Debut

My debut memoir shares my two-plus decades of walking the 60-Mile, 3-Day Walk for the Cure.

I learned a lot about myself, the built-in biases that weigh us down, and I heard remarkable stories of survival, loss, and hope.

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